I was feeling the night grow old.

So I've realized one thing.

I've always felt my parents weren't exactly the "nicest" parents ever. When I was young I actually disliked them because they constantly disallowed me to do many things; while my friend's parents practically allowed them roam around. I felt like they were a bit too protective.

Obviously that has changed drastically now that I'm older. In addition, I feel much different about them as if my perspective has changed. I think about my parents and I just realize how lucky I am to have such great parents. Yes, there are the occasional problems, but overall my parents are great. They aren't constantly oppressing, condeming me, or discouraging me. As a matter of fact, my mom would always support me through whatever I choose to do. They're incredibly nice even after I've done something wrong. My mom cooks everyday, it's not like I don't get allowance, I don't get yelled at for stupid reasons. My dad is really loving and I mean wow, what more can I ask for?

Then I think about my friends. I have so many friends with parents that are the complete opposite of mine. Whether it be threatening to disown a child, consistent oppression, or just being angry for plain stupid reasons, I just feel disheartened to hear about these things. It's as if the parents never realize the discontentment of their child. What's even weirder, I really want to help anyone with these kinds of parents. I'd honestly try my best If I could somehow help; like giving advice. Your parents aren't someone you should be hating; they should be someone you love and can look up to. But I know a lot of my friends can't possibly do that anymore and I completely understand why.

I just wish I could give them my parents for a day and see how wonderful they truly are. I just want to do something to show them how a true parent is. Unfortunately, this is impossible, unless of course they were somehow adopted. I don't know but, somehow the next generation of parents will be completely different in my opinion. Many people have experienced the feeling of horrendous parents so I doubt they'd make the same mistake to their child.

Now that I think about it, I'm truly blessed to have such wonderful parents.